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I know I haven't been consistent in my life with things that really matter, that all changes right now! I have to it is a must in order for me to live my truth. So I have decided to change. I am changing, umm now that I think of it, isn't that a song. Well okay stick to the topic at hand.

I have come a long way and yes I am aware there is still so much more to do. Changing is not easy. Especially when you decide to do it in your 40's. This is one reason why I decided to start sharing my stories, so that perhaps it can save someone from making the same or similar mistakes that I made. One big one is I didn't deal with things to completion at the time I am actually going through it. So recognizing that has me saying yes girl, change is very much necessary.

I made a conscious decision to get serious out my business which is sharing my life. So that is what this blog is all about me being serious dedicated and not self sabotaging myself.

I made a change to my podcast, yes I have a podcast. You probably didn't know because I chose to not properly advertise. So with that in mind I am going to promote myself to the fullest.

Listen, listen well, if you don't toot your own horn , or motivate your self no one else can do it for you. It does not matter how many hugs they give, how much they say they believe in you until you are ready to actually make the moves and believe in yourself, you will remain exactly wherever you are in life.

Decide now for you, not your family, friends, spouse, your best friend, no for yourself. Decide you are worth it, decide you want to live the life you are meant to live then do it.

Don't make anymore excuses, I know I have made tons of excuses. STOP! Take action, it is your life but it will not change unless you do. That is the magic wand.

Thank you for reading this,

NitaDaOne also known as Lilac Duchess of Lilac Duchess Regency

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